How to Pop the Question
[intro]So you’ve found the perfect girl, purchased the perfect ring, and you’re ready to pop the big question. . . This is new uncharted territory! What’s next? Are you forgetting anything? [/intro]
Make Sure You’re both on Board:
Have you ever talked about marriage or a future together? Before my husband ever even thought of a way to propose, I knew we were right for each other and that we were going to get married. We talked about what our future would look like. . . even down to the logistical and financial parts of it. Is it something that you both want? Make sure you’re both on the same page and have some important conversations now.
Purchase the Engagement Ring SHE Wants:
She says she’ll love anything you get, but let’s be honest, we all know someone who doesn’t love their wedding ring. When I got married, I was involved in picking out my ring. I let my mom talk me into getting a ring that I didn’t love. She was sure that I’d be disappointed if I didn’t have an engagement ring and a separate wedding band, but that’s not what I really wanted. The ring I wore for the first 11 years of our marriage had a big high set diamond that would always snag my sweaters, and because it was so high set. . . I actually lost the diamond- TWICE. Needless to say after the second time, we got the gorgeous simple ring that I always wanted. Since this ring is a something she will wear forever, you want to make sure it’s the right style for her. Don’t compromise or let someone talk her into something else. If you don’t get what she likes, just be warned that you may be purchasing 2 wedding rings for the same woman at some point.
The Super Fun Talk with Dad:
Of course you’re marrying an independent woman (and she doesn’t need permission to get married these days), BUT you really should consider asking for her father’s blessing. Especially if she is traditional or close with her family. It may be a little nerve racking, but it shows a lot of respect and love for your future wife and inlaws.
Surprise Surprise!:
Even girls who say they don’t love surprises will be a little bummed if this event isn’t a surprise. Just because you talk about getting married before you actually pop the question, doesn’t mean the girl doesn’t want to be surprised about when and how the engagement will happen.
Get Personal:
Now’s the time to think hard: Where did you meet? What do you like to do together? Where did you say “I love you” the first time? Where was your first kiss? Have you guys discussed going on a dream vacation? Whatever place you choose, make sure it has some meaning. Take the time to plan out the proposal and include something that’s special to you both.
Get a Photographer to Capture the Big Moment:
You wouldn’t forget to hire a photographer for your wedding, but why not take it a step further and get the whole story. Right from the beginning, some of the coolest wedding pictures are the surprise and real emotion from the wedding proposal. Trust me, you’ll get brownie points from your fiancé if you get a photographer to document this incredible moment.
Celebrate Good Times, Come on:
Yay!!! She said “Yes,” so what next? If you’re not at a restaurant, you should have plans already made for dinner or to invite all of your friends/family out to celebrate with you. If you go the extra mile to make it memorable, this night of celebration will have her talking about it for years to come.
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How did your proposal go? Let’s start sharing ideas in the comments below!
